Do you go to confession when you sin?

by | Spiritual life

There is a profound significance in confessing our sins through the Sacrament of Reconciliation. In a world where some Catholics question its relevance, and where the notion of direct forgiveness from God prevails, there is an invaluable gift that Jesus has bestowed upon us. This sacrament not only mends our relationship with the Divine but also fosters unity within the Body of Christ, the Church. As Saint John Bosco put it, “Do you want to become saints? Here is the secret: confession is the lock; confidence in your confessor is the key. This is how you open heaven’s gates.”

The Sacrament of Reconciliation, often referred to as confession, stands as a spiritual journey towards healing and renewal. In a society where self-help and instant solutions dominate, the power of confession might seem overlooked. Many believe that praying and seeking forgiveness directly from God suffices. However, understanding the distinctive role of the Sacrament of Reconciliation can deepen one’s spiritual life and relationship with God.

At the heart of confession lies the recognition of sin as a barrier between the individual and God. This acknowledgment is not a condemnation but a pathway to reconciliation. The sacrament provides a structured and tangible way for Catholics to express remorse, seek forgiveness, and receive guidance for spiritual growth. It is a powerful encounter with God’s mercy and love, a reminder that no sin is beyond redemption.

Saint John Bosco’s words resonate profoundly: “Confession is the lock; confidence in your confessor is the key.” The act of confessing one’s sins is similar to turning the key in the lock, opening the gates of heaven to receive God’s grace. The confessor, a guide and mediator, holds the key that unlocks the transformative potential of this sacrament. Trust in the confessor’s guidance becomes the key that ensures a sincere and meaningful confession, fostering a profound spiritual experience.

The communal aspect of confession adds another layer of significance to this sacrament. As members of the Body of Christ, the Church, our sins not only affect our personal relationship with God but also influence the unity of the entire Catholic community. Confessing our sins to a priest reinforces the understanding that we are all on a shared journey of faith. It nurtures a sense of accountability, humility, and communal support, fostering a stronger, more connected Body of Christ.

In a world marked by individualism, the Sacrament of Reconciliation reminds us of the communal nature of our spiritual life. It emphasizes that our journey towards holiness is not something we do alone but all together as a family. Confession is not just about personal forgiveness; it contributes to the healing and strengthening of the entire Catholic community.


The Sacrament of Reconciliation. Confession

Did you stop going to Confession?

I found an article by FOCUS that lists some deep wounds that might keep you from going to Confession. I believe these are helpful to be able to find the problem and start from there:

1. Rationalization: “I Don’t Need to Repent”: it is easy to look at our own lives and think, “I’m a good person. I haven’t committed any horrible crimes. Everyone else does this. I know other people who are much worse than I am.” True disciples of Jesus don’t try to rationalize their sins. When a part of us senses we might have done something wrong or we’re doing something that goes against what Jesus and his Church teach, the next step is to repent: to admit our fault, trust in God’s mercy, and try to change our behavior instead of trying to justify our sins, convincing ourselves what we’re doing is okay.

2. Fear of Repenting: “I Don’t Want to Change!”: we might be afraid to let go of specific sins. Augustine knew his actions were wrong but didn’t want to give up his bad habits. Before his conversion, he once even prayed, “Lord, give me chastity… only not yet!” We, too, need to see what Augustine came to see: God’s plan is for our happiness, and when we follow God’s plan, we always find greater joy than we would otherwise, no matter the cost. The joy of the Gospel is so much better than our sins.

3. Despair: “I Can’t Be Forgiven”: we might doubt we can repent. Like Augustine, we might believe we are so enslaved to sin that turning our lives around is impossible. We might delay and convince ourselves that, maybe later, when we have our lives put together, we can repent and believe in God. Jesus, however, doesn’t work like this. We don’t need to “put our lives in order” to begin living in friendship with Jesus; we need to entrust our lives to Jesus so that he can put our lives in order! We cannot do it on our own. But with His help, we can be forgiven, changed, and made new.

At times, our shame over various sins, whether related to sexuality, addictions, unhealthy habits, or more severe transgressions, might lead us to believe that God’s forgiveness is unattainable. In reality, however, our sins- no matter how grave- are like a drop of water in the vast ocean of God’s mercy. His mercy fully encompasses our wrongdoings; seeking his forgiveness is always met with forgiveness!

I encourage you to look at confession times near you and make a good confession, whether the last time you went was a week ago, a month ago, or maybe years ago. Jesus will always welcome you with open arms! The Catholic Mass Times app will always be ready to assist you in finding Mass, Confession, and Adoration times anywhere you go. Please remember to report any errors in confession times so other Catholics can use the app accurately!